<p>kultur wolf, i can understand what you are saying. however, i am not degrading anyone. In fact, cal was my dream school. I'd never dreamed that I'd make it into stanford, because my family isn't that rich and would need a lot of financial aid (efc of 0). even after i got into stanford i was considering berkeley because i felt stanford was too "fake." I wanted the more realistic and gritty experience berkeley would offer me, but parental pressure forced me to SIR to stanford. I'm not labelling those students as "stupid" or "lazy." </p>
<p>I might not have stated this in the best way, but what i was just trying to get across was something i noticed. Call it a pattern if you will. from my school, most of the hardworking but not necessarily smart people went to Cal while most of the smart but lazy people went to ucsd. i just posted it to see what other people thought, and if they had similar experiences. thats all.</p>