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<p>My D was admitted to both Cornell and NU last year and chose NU. In her case, both Parents, 3 Grandparents, Two Aunts, one Uncle and assorted cousins were Cornell Alums – so we still wonder what planet she grew up on!!! (grin – J/K)</p>
<p>Ok, to be serious – Both my wife and I had gone on trips with her and saw how she interacted at both colleges. She explained to us in a logical, adult fashion why she preferred Northwestern and why she felt it was a better school for her. At the end of the day, I think we both agreed that her decision made sense and that to the extent one can know these things, she probably made the best choice for her. More important, we felt that having worked extremely hard over four years, she had earned the right to make this choice. Freedom and Responsibility do go hand in hand. We couldn’t be more proud of her.</p>
<p>Now, in answer to your question – there’s this thing called the Ivy League. By many, it’s held up as the model for the Best of the Best. It has been for the past 50-100 years. Most will admit that there are a couple of schools – Stanford and MIT, which are the equivalent. But for many there is a feeling that ANY Ivy is better than any non-Ivy. </p>
<p>For some, perception is reality, and one could argue that there is an Ivy Aura. Especially in with those of us in your parents’ generation – 35 years ago, in the eastern US, NU was barely on the radar for the top-top students. Schools like Michigan were clearly thought of as safety schools (and not only for the top students). Duke was “OK” but still thought of as a cut below by many of us easterners. </p>
<p>Today, the stats for admitted students at Cornell (Arts) and Northwestern (Weinberg) are probably indistinguishible. The same for Cornell (Engineering) and Northwestern (McCormick). So it is difficult to argue that either school has material quantatitive educational advantages over the other.</p>
<p>So, all we really have left is that Ivy Aura thing, if it exists. Let’s assume it does, or let’s assume that Cornell is the ‘better school’ (whatever that means). EVEN IF true (and one could certainly argue it is not), the difference between these two schools is not so large as to make this the only factor, or even the most important factor in selecting between the schools. I am 100% confident that a good fit at NU is better (both educationally and in terms of future employment possibilities) than a bad fit at Cornell (or any other Ivy for that matter).</p>