<p>Hiker, I would recommend doing some global searches on CC (and don't limit it to one school's thread, Stanford, Harvard, etc.). </p>
<p>My son was a "commended" NM, but not a Finalist or Semi-Finalist. So, from a personal standpoint, I can't say where, for him, that it made a huge difference. However, in reading the many many threads that I have read over the last several months, where I do recall the "NM" topic coming up the most, was when a student and/or parent was wondering why they did not receive a scholarship "that is normally guranteed for SemiFinalists". I don't recall seeing the answers posted, but my guess is that maybe they sent the letters to School-A, and School-B, and were not accepted to A or B. Then, school-C that did offer them acceptance but did NOT offer them the Scholarship normally associated with NM. Again, that is a guess on my part, based on their post, and the accuracy of their post, as to why they might not have been offered a scholarship that normally goes to NMF NMSF. </p>
<p>If you do some research, you might find more information. My son did receive a merit scholarship that is the exact same $$$ as what a NMF of NMSF awardee can qualify for, so for him, it was not an issue. </p>
<p>In terms of Stanford, and NM letter: you might post a question specific to the Stanford threads, and see what Stanford students have to say. </p>
<p>In my opinion, it takes a LOT more than the NM score (Finalist or SF) for acceptance to Stanford, Harvard, or other top Ivies. If you think that you really have ALL that they look for (gpa, SAT1, SAT2, ACT, ECs, etc), then go ahead and send it to them. If you think it is 50-50 at best that they will consider you (based on ALL of your stats, not just NM), then I would recommend that you really think through your top 5 schools, and see which two are the most likely to accept you. Reach schools are fine. My son was accepted into 2 of his 4 reach schools, and neither was one that he sent the NM letter to. Point being, for him, there was no coorelation. And, he is thrilled with the school that he has chosen, and thrilled with the scholarship offered to him. So, for him/us, the NM (though he scored high enough for commended, over 215), it did not influence his final decision. </p>
<p>Again, do some searching, and reading.
Good luck to you.</p>