<p>I forgot to put our estimated EFC and IM in my OP.
EFC ~11k
IM ~5k</p>
<p>also, while i know there are good schools that would offer great aid beyond the paramters in my OP, i cannot leave them. i’d rather not have another “conversation” (arguing, crying, etc) about something like trying to go out farther to school. “Your life/safety is more important than money/bills” (quote from mother.) And being very protective of my little sister, i COMPLETELY understand (although it took some maturing.</p>
<p>PinotNoir-- thank you. i have heard about silverturtle’s guide. i also have the collegeboard blue book for SAT and barron’s. </p>
<p>hudsonvalley-- rutgers was an iffy school because i’m OOS. i also heard that BU is also unpredictable with aid. thank you for your input.</p>
<p>Foo-- i know it’s sort of contradictory, but it’s hard to understand when people aren’t in my situation, even if they’ve been in a similar situation. (i mean no disrespect.) we dont have 500 out of pocket to give, when it’s only my mother. she plans on having me take out the loans from our EFC because she doesn’t want/cannot pay for them either.</p>
<p>amandakayak; thanks for your input, although Pitt is out-of-bounds and also a public school that i’m OOS for.</p>
<p>fendrock- thank you. i have heard of WPI. i guess i am biased against it because my previous math teacher went to RPI, and constantly talked down WPI (like it was really name Wannabe Poltech. Institute, because it wanted to be like RPI, etc) it is in boston, or near it, correct? i’ll look it up and plan a visit when i do another boston area sweep.</p>
<p>Mom24boys-- i have never heard of that website/those scholarships. my mom has been hard-pressing me to look for scholarships, but the ones on fastweb, cappex, etc I am not eligible for. i will bookmark that right now, thank you.</p>
<p>kei-o-lei: i mentioned quinnipiac to my mom, and she laughed. i guess people really do look down on schools in their own state. with my list consisting heavily of reaches of a “high caliber” i’m sure she saw it as a “step down.” will look into it/visit when we have a chance (and if they have the programs i need.) Also, regarding an earlier paragraph (addressed to everyone) she’d rather have to take out larger loans to have me closer to home than far away and out of the ease-of-access zone. thank you!</p>
<p>cptofthehouse-- thank you. also added Fairfield U as a possibility as a financial safety (more of a last resort because it is too close to home for my comfort:))</p>
<p>hornetdad- i do not like how UMass weights all of those classes the same. it’s not fair (but then again, nothing in life ever is.)</p>
<p>megdog- ah, yes. the Zollman (sp?) scholarship. only ~10 students get it a year. i think about 100 (i could be mistaken) students get the STRIDE scholarship, which is 15k/yr and you do research with a professor. thank you for your response.</p>
<p>HImom- i would consider commuting, but we are not in proximity to any schools that would make it feasible to get there and back every single day (plus the costs of taking the train.) closest is ~1.5 hours. unless i get into yale thank you, commuting has only crossed my mind once before, but if the cost is very outstanding, it may be worth a try.</p>
<p>bclintok- i am hoping to do well on the ACT. i’m the kind of person who likes time to complete tests/quizzes, so the ACT time crunch might be a challenge. i will be reviewing right when i get off of the computer (i have barron’s–very thorough.) Also, i do not like how the need based aid could be recalculated with respect to the merit aid (not to sound selfish.) Thanks for the virtual moral support! (that goes out to all of you wondeful CC parents.)</p>
<p>HImom-- EFC ~11k, IM ~4-5k. i’ll run a collegeboard search to find schools where i am closer to the 75%ile. thanks for your tremendous
help.</p>
<p>Gwen Fairfax-- i’ve heard brandeis being mentioned, i heard it was good (also in MA?) i will check it out. thanks a lot!</p>
<p>ebeeeee-- yes, it’s a disadvantage, but im not too eager to go far away to college either. i’ll do a search for schools aroudn here. thank you.</p>