nearly 20 and I feel like I ain't done **** with my life

<p>Don’t feel bad. I’m 19 and felt the same for a while. Then one day I was sitting in my chair thinking that, and thought to myself “Dude, you’re fµckin’ 19. If nothing else you have 10 years in your 20s to get better at life. If you screw those years up, you can then feel sorry for yourself and have a fairly large pity party all by yourself. But now you just sound like a high schooler after a 2-week relationship ends…”</p>

<p>It sucks now, but wallowing in your own disappointment won’t help. It’ll just make you look unhappy when people are around which means they’ll be less inclined to talk to you cause you’re putting out bad vibes.</p>