<p>I would say almost all of the New England boarding schools are going to provide a safe environment for your son. As Dodgersmom pointed out there is probably not a school where he will be completely safe from hearing gay jokes or other students using offensive terms; however, I doubt that they will every be used in a malicious way towards him or will your son every be on the receiving end of violence.</p>
<p>I hope this all works out for the best.</p>