@LoveTheBard - I guess it comes down what you are looking for in a college. My DS has zero interest in Greek life and he already found good service organizations and was offered an excellent research opportunity. Only 43% of students participate in Greek life and administration is keeping a close eye on Greek activities.
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The greek life scene is popular, and a lot of people participate. It is based on white culture, and can be difficult to integrate to as a minority. I completely understand, I am not a part of greek life, and I have felt not so integrated at times because of it. But, as @Sophie1295 says, Vanderbilt isn’t high school. You can have your own definition of cool, and act accordingly. You can never interact with the frats.