@srk2017 - Yes, and the truth is, at the end of the day --with the exception of the occasional “why was I shut out?” thread – most kids to end up where they belong, which oftentimes is very different that where they thought they initially wanted to go. That’s one of the reasons that I hate ED so much – there’s a lot of growth between November and May of kids’ senior years, and it’s in their best interest not to commit so early on (except for the rare cases in which kids are 100% sure and when finances don’t come into play).