Need advice

<p>Okay, so this situation is sooo high school but it's really bothering me. So my grade is reallllly cliquey. Friday night this kid had a party and everyone kind of came together for the first time in a really long time and it was so nice. Then we all hung out alllll day and night Saturday until another kid from the same group of friends had a party. The same group of people came and everyone was having a good time. Except I got way too drunk and ending up having to throw up in the bathroom for a bit, and when I came out everyone else had left, so it was just me and his older sister and her friends. She called her brother yelling at him and I guess I left a mess in the bathroom and she had to drive me home. When I woke up I was a little embarrassed but I thought that everything was fine. </p>

<p>But yesterday he was tweeting about it and seemed mad and annoyed at me (understandably). So I texted him apologizing and he said that it was all good, not to worry about it and it wasn't a problem. So I thought it would blow over and be fine. Well...I wasn't at school today but apparently he yelled at my other friend saying it was her responsibility to take me home blah blah blah etc. She's not mad at me but I feel really bad about the entire situation, and I feel like now he hates me and all of his friends hate me and now all the girls are upset with me as well. I only have 2 days of school to make it through this week before break, but I don't know what to do and how to approach the situation. I'm really embarrassed and I really just want it to blow over. Any advice?</p>

<p>Ye I got some advice for you. DON’t !@#$% drink or go under the influence. Learn from this mistake and learn to handle your own stomach. No one likes to clean up vomit so they have every right to be angry with you. There’s nothing you can do if they refuse to accept your apology.</p>

<p>What? Someone worried about something other than getting into Stanford or Yale? Enjoy your life, but cut out the drinking. GL</p>

<p>“Except I got way too drunk and ending up having to throw up in the bathroom for a bit”</p>

<p>Well, that’s not something you hear on College Confidential every day.</p>

<p>Give it time…soon someone else will do something worse and everyone will forget about it.</p>

<p>Yeah I definitely learned my lesson about everything, and I totally get that they have the right to be angry with me, but it’s definitely not reason enough to hate me forever. But with this group of people this happens nearly every weekend and people usually don’t get upset about it, so I don’t really know what to do besides apologize. I just wish that I didn’t value their opinions as much…</p>

<p>and I know it’s not something you hear on College Confidential everyday, but I definitely am responsible usually and this never happens. Not even to brag but I am the valedictorian and generally have a good reputation but I still go out…it’s possible to balance everything. I have break after this week so I’m just not going to go out all break and hopefully by the following Monday it’ll all blow over.</p>

<p>It’s not fun to be the most sober person at a party, but it’s WAY worse to be the most drunk. Take this as a learning experience about what not to do in a situation like that party. Don’t be the guy who’s puking at 8:00. </p>

<p>Regardless, people aren’t going to really care about what you did in a couple weeks.</p>

<p>Thanks…I’ve definitely learned my lesson I just feel really bad about it and I hope that it will blow over soon and not be awkward. I don’t want to lose friends over this situation</p>

<p>If you’re going to get ucked up, learn how to puke with class. </p>

<p>It’ll blow over. It was the first day back. If they said its good, act like everything is good.</p>

<p>How do you puke with class? Ye you messed up but I’m sure this will be one of those little memories of high school. You’re right, they shouldn’t be as angry as they are but time will heal everything. Like I said earlier, you apologized and that’s all you can do really. Just try not to get wasted in the future. There’s no point in partying if you’re going to wake up the next morning feeling like !@#$.</p>

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I wasn’t being serious. -____-</p>

<p>But really learn how to puke without making a mess. No one should no you puked after you puked. If they do, you’re doing it wrong.</p>

<p>^ that made me lol…
anyway OP, just have fun in the Break and go back to school like nthn happened… believe me we teenagers are so full of pathetic drama all the time; it’s hard to keep up with.</p>

<p>as in, you’ll find them waaaay over it cuz they would have simply forgotten by then
yeah someone may make a harsh joke here or there, but who cares!
Enjoy your vacation! XD</p>

<p>Looking for advice? Here’s some: underage drinking is illegal! Good day.</p>

<p>Thanks guys :slight_smile:
I won’t be in school Thursday or Friday anyways, and I’m going in late today for a different reason, so I really only have to get through Wednesday and that’s it. Hopefully everyone will be over it soon and no one will really be mad. Anyways, graduation is in 13 weeks!!</p>