do you want to run in college? because that changes everything. as a recruit, you can get into schools that might not otherwise be possible. running at wash U is very different than a place like Ohio St- just how good are you? D 1 or DIII?
assuming D3, Tufts might work as a school with city access and some greek life. it’s a reach but the running might get you in. Also University of Rochester, if that’s enough of a city for you.
UNC, by the way, I would not call a match. very hard for out of state.