It may be farther than you want but I would look into University of Michigan Stamps School of Art and Design. The curriculum is very open and you can combine art with just about anything if you want. School is very LGBT friendly and they have a living community that specifically combines art and creative writing called the Alice Lloyd Scholars program. Michigan does require a portfolio which is 50% of your admission and is very competitive academically. The OOS costs are high but they do offer FA. I would really consider exploring UM. VCU Arts is also very good but we got the impression the curriculum was not that flexible.