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<p>By “these days” you mean since the advent of high school, right?</p>
<p>oooh! oooh! here’s one for you guys to examine!</p>
<p>my best female friend used to be close to me. like, close. used to laugh at 95% of the things i said, sat next to me in every class and at lunch by choice, told me her secrets and always gave me (and only me) a ‘look’ whenever someone she didn’t like did something she didn’t like. always used to make lots of contact with me, like resting her head on my shoulder randomly or just poking me whenever she felt like it (she’s actually slept on me before, in a completely non-sexual fashion. we were on a bus in a school trip to europe for several hours–she wasn’t feeling that great and the seats were crap, so my upper torso became the pillow). lot of late-night aim conversations. lot of compliments. always included each other in group outings.</p>
<p>i don’t have any feelings for her–we were always just friends. i don’t think she ever had any for me. over time she’s gotten to be less like the above; my jokes are no longer completely surefire, but still sits next to me everywhere (double period + lunch, around 2 hours total). doesn’t tell me any of her secrets anymore but still gives me the ‘look’ and still makes contact whenever. no more conversations, some invitations. </p>
<p>she dated throughout both paragraphs. one was serious (with my best friend) but crashed and burned in 4 months. the current one i disapprove of (the dude has the face of a fitch model but is nerdier than me, which is to say that he partook in the scientology raids. if you know what i’m talking about, shame on you) but will probably last till graduation. </p>
<p>mixed signals? i *think *she was just friendly. i confess that i’m not very good at this game, though. i’m famous for having completely missed all three of her friends’ advances one by one. basically, i treated all of them like hot friends–i made them laugh and feel comfortable, but never showed any overt signs of attraction despite their apparent flirting. oops.</p>
<p>girls are like oranges.</p>
<p>think about the above statement, then say what you thought out loud.</p>
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<p>I suppose it’s great then that no one else knows what a “haza” is.</p>
<p>^you guys naiiled iit^</p>
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<p>It’s gotten worse lately.</p>
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<p>@ enderkin</p>
<p>the reason things are different now could be because you dissprove of her relationship</p>
<p>i think she was just sayin it casually…i say “i love u <insert name=”“>” to ppl’s faces all the time…</insert></p>
<p>nah, she’s only been going out with him for like a month or two. i’ve known her for four years and things have been ‘different’ for about 8 months.</p>
<p>at OP: a Leo?</p>
<p>1) Since you’re friends, just get her number casually.
2) After you’ve talked on the phone a few times, just casually ask if she wants to go hang out at the movies.</p>
<p>well girls overanalyze things, i can tell you that. “well listen to his tone of voice, i mean if he meant _<strong><em>, then he would have said it like </em></strong>” dont know how much that helps just keep it in mind!</p>