<p>From a girls perspective, we like confident guys who are sweet and kind but also themselves. We hate guys who try to be someone they are not. You can’t love anyone if you don’t love yourself first! Work on loving yourself and the rest will follow :)</p>
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<p>OP consider rushing a fraternity. In my fraternity we have extended bids to some shy guys and I have really seen them grow as people and develop a lot more confidence. On top of character building and bonding with brothers you always know where a party is and meeting girls is a lot easier.</p>
<p>My advice to getting a bid is to rush several different fraternities. Be social and nice and you will probably get a bid somewhere. </p>
<p>Also consider transferring like suggested. You can literally be a completely different person if you transfer.</p>