<p>Thank you all so much! You have given me hope. I realize I am a mom… but my son has had simply lousy luck. The medical leave is not for mental illness, life threatening, contagious or anything like that. We had some testing done over Christmas that offered results to his previously undiagnosed condition, and the specialist wanted to continue with the testing to get this over-with. It was just impossible to manage from a plane- ride away.</p>
<p>Since this all happened last minute (like within the last week and a half) we are still somewhat shell-shocked and there are not been much time to “process” the dilemma besides feeling badly. Since few four year schools will take a student on a non-matric. basis these days, and since the semester has already begun, he has jumped to enroll in the Brigham Young Online Program (which is actually NCAA approved.) (We are not Mormons…not important just mentioning.) Since transfer credits are sometimes difficult he has chosen two courses that can be evaluated quantitively… (testing.) In addition, he will go on a couple of Outward Bound trips, do volunteer work and perhaps work a bit. </p>
<p>He is looking for a school in a city or suburb with access to all that a city offers. Size does not matter so much, since even larger universities do their best to build a sense of community. </p>
<p>His plan was to double major and minor (His school permitted this.)
Possible majors: Chemistry or Math, and Theatre/Screen Writing/Communications, (documentary film making is an interest) and French as the minor.</p>
<p>His one semester at his school turned him off pre-med… His college has perhaps the highest acceptance rate into med school in the country and the program is structured as boot camp. He graduated HS with four years of Chemistry- all on an honors level and including Organic and Bio-Chem, was tutuoring most of the kids in his fall semester section, but still only received a B- in the course. That of course, is now hindering his chances of transfer.</p>
<p>We do not qualify for need based aid (at least not last year) although he did receive one of the top merit scholarships at his college.</p>
<p>A lateral move might be: Brandeis, Pomona, Cornell, Bucknell, Whitman… This is a tough question. We live in the Northeast and are VERY familiar with some northeast schools… Let’s just say, “things are seldom what they seem…” Our views on some these schools have way too much insight at this point. He would LOVE to attend Columbia…and did not apply their first go-around because he is an athlete and did not want to compete Div I. After seeing the drinking habits of the athletes in his school, he is separating from that as well, using his sport as exercise and participating more in club sports.</p>
<p>This time, I have been more longwinded… Thank you again for any input and suggestions. I admit to feeling very worried.</p>