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<li>I think “neither…is” is right, because the subject is neither, “of the boys” is just a prepostitional phrase. Since “is” agrees with neither, it’s right.</li>
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<p>2.I think you’re right about the second one.</p>
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<li>Should be “were”, because “students” is plural, and agreement with second noun is correct.</li>
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<p>^ I disagree. Even though it applies most of the time.
If you follow that rule, that would mean that #2 would be neither/were. Which isn’t the case.</p>
<p>Isn’t “family” supposed to be technically a singular noun? Yes, I’m aware that family means that there is more than one person, but since it’s a group, it is singular? So shouldn’t it be neither…was?</p>