<p>July 1 can be a very exciting date for the athlete. It can represent a validation of all the hard work leading up to a moment of time where a college coach explicitly recognizes all those hours/days/weeks/years of effort. But it is an artificial date with significance that is really fleeting.</p>
<p>And dont think that most college coaches are ignorant of the significance of July 1. (Most college coaches are masters of manipulation when it comes to recruiting hs players.)</p>
<p>Speaking as a parent of an athlete, July 1 was indeed an amazing date the phone calls started early in the morning and continued throughout the day. Proud parents we were; watching as our hs student fielded calls from prospective suitors; answering questions with the aplomb of a politician at a news conference. We even put charts up on the fridge! </p>
<p>And, jumping ahead, the school he chose was not one of those 7/1 calls!</p>
<p>Recruiting is a process. And, if there are no calls received on July 1 there is no significance in that fact. There are a myriad of reasons for not hearing from a coach on July 1 (some coaches are busy; some coaches may have spoken to your athlete in a camp the week before; some coaches are simply more aggressive [organized], etc).</p>
<p>I would put absolutely zero stock in a call (or no call) on July 1 (you have no idea if coach called 1, 100, or 1000 other athletes that day).</p>
<p>I would keep my eye on the goal of the recruiting process: finding which schools are the right fit for me? (I happen to believe that there will be more than one perfect fit.) I would remain open to all possibilities throughout the recruiting process. Schools which you havent even dreamed about may surface not on July 1 but much later. I would use the opportunity of these contacts to make my student/athlete research each potential match (ah, the internet makes it so easy).</p>
<p>I would not commit to anything on July 1 (commit to nothing in the heat of the moment); that includes Official Visits and scholly/roster offers. I would thank the coaches profusely, have a series of questions ready if needed, write down what was said (so you can remember in case you need to get materials together (e.g., transcripts to admissions to approve a visit), and keep a cool and level head (that goes for July 1 or any other time your athlete has conversations with coaches).</p>
<p>I would also not, as a parent, speak with a coach at this point. If the coach calls your home phone, I would simply take a message; no conversation, no questions, nothing more than take a message. This part of the recruiting process is between the athlete and the coach (there will be a time for parental involvement just not during the courtship dance). I would, however, really press my athlete to tell about the conversation both out of curiosity and because the athlete is seriously overmatched by the recruiting process/coach so we can offer advice and counsel. Also, as a life experience, every time the athlete speaks directly to the coach during this recruiting process without parental filters is essentially another job interview (I mean, youre not going to go to a job interview with him/her are you?).</p>
<p>On final comment sit back and enjoy the ride; you worked hard to get to this point and earned the right to be exhilarated!</p>