<p>DAndrew, I agree that it’s a matter of practicality, I just come to a different conclusion. 
I also agree that BS is hard, in several ways, <em>but</em> I found DC1’s adjustment issues were mostly ones related to dealing with high school, not because it was boarding–and I definitely leave room for the possibility that it may be different for DC2–different school, different kid. IMO, economic differences are part of school and life, already dealt with before high school; again, not specific to boarding. I do realize this may be a different experience for kids coming from more homogeneous schools and neighborhoods. </p>
<p>As I stated before, I would hope some activities will be included (both on and off campus), but it doesn’t bother me if all aren’t. </p>
<p>This thread did begin with mandatory costs and fees, but if we’re looking at comparing net costs, I think it’s important to address the unexpected, seemingly hidden costs. I think I posted on the other thread referenced, I wish we had a clearer idea of these more squishy fees/costs before BS for DC1. In speaking with other parents, these do seem to vary quite a bit among the different BSs.</p>