<p>DAndrew, I think it’s important for parents comparing prices and packages to look at costs that aren’t listed as mandatory, but aren’t optional. I agree, some of the things listed on the other thread fall under what I consider discretionary spending, but some don’t.
As GMT pointed out, travel fees are necessary–even if you’re driving, gas prices are $. Books and supplies aren’t optional, some schools seem to have a more active network than others for kids to buy used. Some schools have mandatory trips (ie, service), not included in tuition, is there an option for less expensive trip? Laundry doesn’t have to be done by the pricey laundry service, but it does have to be done. Kids who are going to school in a different climate than their home will need items not budgeted for in years past. </p>
<p>*I am not looking to be argumentative or negative, just realistic. These are all things I’m taking into consideration when comparing costs.</p>