Never Been to DisneyLand

<p>Hi guys!</p>

<p>I have been invited by my relative to go to Disneyland, but I need to pay them $200. I think we will be there for maybe a few days. I do not know if I should go. I do not really like them. Since I arrive here in US a few years ago, and I spend my college summers in their house, I do not feel welcome at all. They do not like me, but they invite me to places just because they feel that they should because I am their niece. </p>

<p>I am not excited going to disneyland knowing that I am with them and paying to be with them.
The only reason why I am going is because I have never been to disneyland (but I have been to six flags a couple of times!)</p>

<p>Should I go knowing that I might not even enjoy it?
Would I be missing a lot if I do not go? I am already 19 years old by the way.</p>

<p>I hope someone will reply. Please help me make a decision. My aunt ask me to decide before tuesday. Thanks!</p>

<p>“It’s the happiest place on earth!”</p>

<p>If you aren’t going to enjoy it b/c of the ppl you will be with, then you might not want to go. Although the park itself would be fun even for someone your age.</p>

<p>I suggest you not go - you will not have a fun time, where ever you are, if you are around people that you don’t like.</p>

<p>Also, the fact that your relatives are making you pay them 200 dollars seems a little off. I mean, sure, nobody, not even your relatives, have money to blow to someone else, but if they truly wanted you to go, then they wouldn’t be making you pay 200 bucks. </p>

<p>I understand that, at 19, you might feel a little deprived of not having been to Disneyland, but you will have many more chances to go.</p>

<p>that is true, powerbomb.</p>

<p>They probably do not want me to go with them. They just invited me for the sake of inviting. So that they can tell my mom that they invited me and make them look like as if they care. I can never count on my relatives here. When they go to my country, they all stay at our house, and we provided all the food, entertainment, even expenses when they travel locally. Even when I stay at their house during the last summers, my mom paid them $300 a month for food and rent and still they made me do the housework and babysat their spoiled brat kids. Life is so not fair, I am thinking of complaining to my parents. </p>

<p>I really want to go to disneyland, because people around me are always shock to find out I have never been there even when I tell them, I did not grow up here. I feel as if there is something wrong with me.</p>

<p>well this took a quick turn</p>

<p>i am sorry zoaxanthellae, I know I should not have said that about my relatives.</p>

<p>I am just so mad at their manipulative behavior.</p>

<p>I know what i am going to do, get my Masters degree in UCLA, so I coul visit Disneyland anytime!</p>

<p>I just went to disneyland for the first time like 2 weeks ago… worst days of my life. I hated it. Perhaps it was because my mom was constantly swearing and shouting at me, or because my dad was randomly kicking me, yawning loudly in the middle of a crowd etc.</p>

<p>But anyway, disneyland is like any other theme park… a few rides, restaurants, etc. Not raelly special. If you’ve been to one you’ve been to them all</p>