new here. complicated life story=complicated chances...

<p>Thanks SO much, hmom5! I looked at the threads on these issues and it sounds like there is a way to handle it and direct it appropriately in your application, but I need to be really careful what I say and how I say it. Your insight is actually profoundly helpful, not only in the honesty, but the fact that I’ve been rather lost on the subject until now.</p>