My daughter & I went on an eight college tour across California last October. It was the small, genuine interactions that made all the difference.
Awesome:
Our first school was Pitzer, right off a red eye flight. We only had 15 minutes before the tour started, and I asked the guide if someplace was open where I could get a quick snack. Nothing was and she insisted on running up to her dorm room to get me a granola bar. Cool, caring, down-to-earth – just like the school.
Our Cal Poly Slo guide was an admitted goofball. The jokes were bad, but she was still cracking herself up, which lightened everyone’s mood. Also, she was excellent at throwing out questions to random students (Ex: workload question to engineering student in front of engineering building) It was great to hear from a variety of people.
Stanford was the best because we took the golf cart tour and no one else had signed-up. We had the guide all to ourselves, and she was very genuine with us. She happened to be from Hawaii too so she bonded with my D over outrigger canoeing and owning a ridiculous number of bikinis. Obviously, you won’t always be able to have one-of-one chats with everyone, but the more common ground you find with those taking the tour, the more positive the memory will be.
Not so awesome:
The was very hot at Occidental during our tour and jet lag had set-in. Both my D and I were sick at different points in the tour and had to leave and come back. The group was only about 10 people, but at no point did the guide acknowledge we were literally dropping like flies. She had a timetable, she had a script, and no amount misery was going to change that.
Pamona. Our tour guide was hard-working, brilliant, multi-faceted, a favorite of the ladies, and an all-around superstar. How do I know? Because pretty much all we heard about on the tour was how awesome he was, which, in fact, was not so awesome.
Good luck, and have FUN!