I have a daughter who is a rising Junior who participates in xc and track and field. She and her team have done very well and her coach has started to talk to us about college and potential recruitment, etc. We’ve been told that our assignment for the summer is to come up with a list of schools that she’s interested in and fill out their recruit information form.
Neither my husband nor I were athletes at this level and we’re pretty clueless about the process. At this point, our main question is whether we really want her to try to pursue xc/t&f in college. On the plus side, we will be in the position of not qualifying for much financial aid, but also not being able to afford $50k a year, so anything that might help with any money would be great. We’ve also been told that, even if she isn’t good enough to be recruited or offered $, being an athlete that the coach wants as a walk-on could help her to get into a school that she might not otherwise get into. She also likes the idea of having an instant community of friends who will probably be like-minded, etc.
On the negative side, we’re very concerned about the toll that running at college might take on her academic success and, more importantly, on her health and overall happiness. She - like many athletes - is a very intense, competitive kid. She has great grades and works her butt off to maintain those grades, along with meeting the demands of her sports. She’s the kind of kid who refuses to cut corners and we are afraid she’ll be miserable trying to meet the demands of both professors and a coach while dealing with the usual freshman adjustment issues.
So, can any of you give any advice on how playing a sport in college affected your kid? I know different sports have different demands, so specific experiences with track and field and/or cross country would be most helpful. I also know that a lot depends on the division of the school, with Div I being more time demanding than Div III, etc. We were thinking of maybe limiting her recruit applications to Div III schools and then letting her apply to the Div I schools she likes without bringing running into the discussion. For those schools, we’d just let her high school athletics be a good extracurricular.
Does that sound like a good plan? Is there anywhere to look that might give us information on how demanding a particular coach is at a college? There’s one school she likes a lot and would be interested in running for, but I’ve heard rumors that the coach there is very difficult.
Any advice is appreciated as we begin to try to figure all of this out. Thanks!