The combo of these two gives me some hope. When H and I were dating we often compared our school backgrounds. Mine was terrific public school in NY where we read a ton - several books, plays, poetry, etc, each year. H was in NC where they read very, very little and history class ended with “The War of Northern Aggression” vs mine that went all the way through Vietnam. The differences were amazing and sad.
I hope NC has truly upped its level.
Here in PA the school I work at has far less reading, and reading at grade level, than the one I attended in my youth, but it still beats what H had by a lot. One of the reasons I wouldn’t even consider moving to NC back when we were contemplating a “home” for the kids was due to his experience with the schools there. We didn’t go further north due to long winters.
Even so, we homeschooled our oldest two from 9-12 and 7-12 respectively because the high school here wasn’t up to “my” standards. With oldest we went in to talk with admin and were told, “Public school isn’t here to teach the gifted student. They’ll do well no matter where they go or what they do. Public school is here to teach the average student and around us the average student works at ____, joins the military, or goes to cc. Then we have to work with below average students because the government requires it.” My personal experience working there let me know the principal wasn’t lying.
Fortunately, the school has since changed admin and is working to provide a decent education for all now. That includes both the college bound and the trades, because certainly, not everyone needs calculus or to read the classics in depth. Everyone needs basic math (including personal finance) and being able to read beyond the first line or two of something though!
Also… to whoever said kids use Cliff Notes now, back in my day those who preferred used Cliff Notes then too - even in my really good school. That’s certainly not new.