Momof3DDs: My brother and SIL have a grandchild who has a black father (they are white.) Every time she comes to their house (she is 3), one of the first things my SIL does is takes out her braids and washes and straightens her hair. Oh, and changes her clothes if they are going somewhere. This is racism. With their own grandchild. They are trying to make her as white as they can (she is light skinned.)"
Why? Why are they taking out her braids? Did they tell you?