<p>In many jurisdictions, a spouse who is a homemaker for 20 years and divorcing her $400,000/yr physician husband would be far from impoverished after a divorce. I don’t know specifically about Pennsylvania.</p>
<p>But anyway…there are a LOT of college students who end up working their way through a state school because their parents (divorced and married) refuse to pay for college. Can you take one course a semester and work the rest of the time?</p>
<p>I know you think this is impossible, but maybe you and Dad should attempt to get along, or go to counseling. He might be witholding tuition because he thinks you hate him. Lots of people are like that.</p>