<p>Maryland also doesn’t require college cost considerations in divorce proceedings. Just because the state doesn’t require it doesn’t mean your mother’s attorney cannot win such considerations, however.</p>
<p>Who is going to pick your dad’s nursing home, I wonder…?</p>
<p>I love Cornell – was visiting it over the weekend, in fact (H got his doctorate there) – and know it’s a fabulous school, but it is really expensive. If you don’t get financial aid to make staying there feasible, please don’t be tempted to take out loans to finance the whole cost. If you have to transfer because of college costs, mourn for a little while, but then transfer and don’t look back, especially since you want to go to med school.</p>
<p>I do not understand, at all, parents who act this way. I’m so sorry for the situation you are in.</p>