To start with only about 3 of my high school acquaintances go to the university I do, but I am the only on that doesn’t dorm. I stay in an apartment a few miles aways that I rent with my brother. My first semester of college I really tried to make new friends an dI even began to look into sororities, but at my university you can only join as a sophomore or above. I meet a lot of new people that semester other way but, not any close friends. My second semester I moved back home and commuted twice a week, so I didn’t really have a chance to get involved. So here I am fall semester of my second year and without friends. So back to the sorority I actually got chosen to pledge exactly the one I wanted. In the beginning it was great I was meeting other girls like me and I had endless laughs and fun nights with them but in between all those laughs and memories hid several humiliating and miserable moments. Yes the typical sorority hazing story. It was awful but I made the decision to leave and it was hard I made close close friends at the tie I would have called them sisters some even meet wen to my home and spent the night and meet my family. It seemed like it was everything I wanted the typical college experience, the best one, the sorority kind that people are jealous of. I made my decision and I knew I was going to loose all my friends and those awesome perks but I decided I was more important than being worthy or accepted to some girls. Sure I felt special and they made it a point to tell us they chose us, me. I gave up regardless, I would never want anybody that I love to go through what I went through. So now I am here right back where Started without friends and feeling lonely. What do I do?
It’s only 4 years, just get rolls up your sleeves and get through it. Six months after graduation you’ll forget 99% of the drama.
Get involved with some college clubs or interest groups if you can. Spend some time in those clubs before heading home from school. You’ll meet some nice people.