@HPuck35 summed it up nicely. I find it interesting that you don’t want stress but most of your schools seem to be stress schools in general. You also need to learn what reach, match, safety schools are. WashU is a reach for most kids and intense on campus in general. We weren’t thrilled with their engineering offering. Others love it and find it chill… This is why you visit campuses when you can. Fit is key to her general overall experience.
Any program for engineering is tough. Lots of kids go down a full grade first semester /year. Then the engineering classes start… Lol…
My kid is at Michigan for engineering and really doesn’t find it stressful from others. It’s just hard. No question about it. How you manage that is student driven. His major is about 50 % women or something like that (industrial engineering).
On your list Case Western is a great school. Know a recent female graduate that loved the school. She was also a stellar tournament chess player so used to being in a male dominant environment.
I am going to give you some recommendations that won’t be close to your list but will be really good schools, might be safeties and should check your boxes with perceived less stress then the schools mentioned.
NC State. This gets overlooked and joint program with UNC for Biomedical if I remember correctly.
RIT a female graduate I know loved the school and her first job is working for Tesla. It was her first internship and her dream job. Because of working at Tesla she gets weekly offers from other companies and she is considering some of them.
Iowa State University. It’s campus is huge spirit and fun with a really good placement for engineering. One of the largest engineering fairs anywhere. They get good jobs… More chill school. But… We did mention engineering is tough just about anywhere.
Michigan State University. Very relaxed campus . Engineering is all together there and collaboration is a huge focus from day one. Another school that gets overlooked compared to Michigan. MSU has a great honors program. Could be one of the best in the country. Instate tuition, guaranteed mentorship with major research component, money for study abroad, true honors classes and privileges. Very collaborative. Chill campus. Major university. Great job placement.
Miami of Ohio… Kids love this school. Great merit.
So… All will garner merit OOS, I am just assuming she will have grades and stats for Duke etc on your list.