Once I feel a discussion is over, I like to summarize what I learned in the discussion.
Like I did in the other thread I opened.
Most information here regarding 529 plans will apply to non-custodial parents, but also grandparents 529’s.
Also the discussion is only meaningful for schools that only require only fafsa, either because they are fafsa-only schools, or because the college is not providing institutional need aid anyway.
1 - You can put up to $70K into a 529 plan without incurring gift tax.
2 - When money is withdrawn from the 529 to the student it does not incur gift tax.
(Therefore it never make sense to withdraw to yourself or pay the university directly from the 529)
3 - When you withdraw from non-custodial 529 to student, that should get declared on fafsa line 45j
This causes a 50% marginal increase in EFC, but that is what has to be done.
on the other hand the 529 is not declared as an asset on the fafsa, since it is the non-custodial parent’s
4 - 529 plan money can only be used for tuition, fees, room, board, books. Withdrawal over those incur penalties and taxes.
5 - if student has a merit scholarship you can withdraw the equivalent amount from the 529 without incurring penalties, (but still paying taxes on the gains at student’s tax rate, which will be low or close to zero). Money withdrawn through this option can be used for anything
6 - 529 plan money withdrawn Junior Spring semester and later does not need to be declared on fafsa, since there is no further fafsa to file after that point.
Regarding non-529 support non-custodial parent wants to provide:
1 - If given directly to student, has to be declared on fafsa 45j, causing 50% marginal increase in EFC.
2 - If given to custodial parent, for her to spend on kid, independent of if part of a legal requirement, it should be declared as child support on fafsa 94c, causing a 25% marginal increase in EFC.
Even though this is better from a fafsa perspective, there is some loss of control, as custodial parent can do whatever he/she wants with the money, also current spouse is more comfortable giving money directly to student.
3 - non-custodial parent can provide a fully legal loan at prime+2% interest. After Junior Spring semester, loans can be forgiven, paying attention to gift tax limits(14K/y/pp), splitting into separate tax years if necessary.
4 - Also fully draw down on any federal loans available to student, or custodial parent. After Junior Spring semester, loans can be paid off on behalf of student, or custodial parent, paying attention to gift tax limits(14/y/pp), splitting into separate tax years if necessary. In this case student and/or custodial parent need to trust non-custodial parent enough that the loans will in fact be eventually paid.
Finally, it seems that there is a loophole in that grandparents are allowed to give money to custodial parents instead of directly to the student, and it does not need to appear anywhere on the fafsa as long as under gift tax limits(14K/y/pp).
In the entire discussion, anything over gift tax limit, I did not address, since it is not within my reality, and I am not sure of the effects in that case.