<p>So everyone agree on what your family is willing to pay and apply ED to NU. Giving up the advantage of applying ED to NU because of potential stress seems like a suboptimal decision.</p>
<p>Living61, post 17, is not the OP of the thread. It’s hard to tell to whom subsequent replies are addressed. NU is the OP, self-employed is Living61 but the responses seem to be intertwining the situations.</p>
<p>Just trying to clarify.</p>
<p>Living61, you should have started your own thread to avoid this confusion.</p>