<p>Thank you bclintonk and kmcmom. Great perspective and thoughts and really helpful. I’m a big believer in the child making the choice without undue influence (putting aside financial discussions), however, the only reason I’m on these boards is to try to help my D with her struggles to figure what she wants. If she knew for sure all would be easier.</p>
<p>She attends a small prep school where everyone seems to want to go to a tiny LAC, which is fine. Her attitude is those are not for her because “I don’t want to go to high school again”. That led her to think more mid-size was the answer - think WashU, Vandy, BC - but silly me convinced her maybe applying to one large, great research U made sense (thus Michigan).</p>
<p>So she gets in EA and seems to like it above all (likes the diversity, liberal side that many fall short on for her) but can’t help but gawk at the size. We tried to “shrink” it and on a revisit she looked at the RC but for whatever reason was not a fan.</p>
<p>I agree with the points you two have made, especially finding your own niche and making it a “smaller” place. Anyway, thanks for the perspective. She just has to get comfortable, or not, with the size. I would think others are dealing with this as well as Michigan causes that dilemma…great school but bigger than some thought they wanted.</p>