I agree with @Corbett that Reed is definitely worth considering. Probably quite a few hipster types there. You mentioned Colby and Brown. Brown’s vibe is more in line with Vassar, Wesleyan and Swat. Colby is actually quite sporty, with 44% of students participating in sports. Are you more indie or more preppy? If more preppy, then Colby and Amherst are good choices. If you are more indie, the others are better. I also really like the suggestions in post 5. Those schools have smart students who probably run the gamut of nerdy science geeks and intellectuals to everything in between.
Harvard and Yale, eh. Your list is filled with reaches. You need to carefully consider match and safety schools you would be happy at and can afford. U Rochester is a great choice and you will probably get good merit aid there. Rochester has a lively art and music scene and there are plenty of good restaurants and shops. CWRU has an excellent rep. State honors colleges are a good idea. Work on the safety and match schools. They are important.