<p>After what has been a grueling college application experience, I have my options for next year narrowed down to Notre Dame and the University of Pennsylvania. My plan is to go into the Humanities.</p>
<p>I feel quite pressured to go to Penn. I know that, as an Ivy League school, a degree from Penn would open doors for me that few could even imagine. I don't really feel pressured by my family, but a number of people whom I've spoken to—teachers who've gone to Oxbridge, and even one of my interviewers for another Ivy to which I was rejected—have pointed out that so many more opportunities are available with an Ivy degree, even from one of the so-called "lesser Ivies." Penn is no Harvard or Yale, certainly, but it is an exceptionally good school.</p>
<p>But I will be brutally honest: My heart tells me to go to Notre Dame. I am so drawn by its incredible sense of community and, really, the overall sense of purpose. I was accepted, in this admissions cycle, to twelve different institutions in both the U.S. and Canada. But I know quite honestly that if I denied ND, I would always be asking myself, "What if?", in a way that I know would not happen if I denied any other institution. I will ask "What if?" if I deny Penn as well, but the question would assume a much different character.</p>
<p>I have my sights set on grad school already, and I'm particularly interested in applying, when the time comes however many years from now, to Oxford and Cambridge. Penn, I know, would make it easier for me to get into superior grad school programs.</p>
<p>Still, I know that I would be personally happier at Notre Dame. It's not that I would be unhappy attending UPenn; to be totally honest I know if I attended I'd in all likelihood spend four perfectly happy years there, and end up with a very valuable degree. But I cannot shake the feeling that I would get more than mere happiness from Notre Dame; a greater sense of purpose, perhaps. I think ND would enable me to change fundamentally as a person for the better.</p>
<p>So will someone tell me whether or not I'm crazy to even think about turning down an Ivy? And does anyone know of people who have been in a situation like this before? This may very well end up being one of the most important decisions I'll ever make.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for your help.</p>