<p>Hi folks,</p>
<p>I thought I was pretty savvy with the FA arena, but was a bit blind-sided recently when we received our middle son's FA award letter, and subsequent fall bill the next week with very little time to even process it. Our older son just graduated from an undergraduate school and our middle son is a rising junior at a different institution. Our oldest is going onto medical school and we were aware that at that point, you're pretty much on your own, in terms of loans and so forth. However, we were not prepared for the drastic reduction in FA from our middle son's school. We expected that we would be paying what we were last year in total, only for the one remaining in college, but rather, the sum is much, much larger. </p>
<p>Even though our son's EFC is ~7K, our bill is more than 4x that. We are unclear about the numbers, but a swift 24 hour email appeal request and denial from the school just said that it was because we now only have 1 in school and that post-graduate education does not count. Even with that, though, it seems bizarre that the amount we are expected to pay this year, is nearly half again as much as we paid last year, with two in school? What am I missing? They did not give me details on the phone or in the email regarding what EFC/Parent Contribution they calculated, so we do need to see how those numbers were comprised. The only thing we received was the FA Award letter, stating the loans and university grant being offered. </p>
<p>Of note, my older son went to a great school whose financial aid office was incredibly helpful, all four years. They tweaked and adjusted every which way they could to help his education be affordable for our family. They were a 100% met need college. Our middle son's school is not 100%, but it's a little hard to figure out where they are exactly, even though Princeton Review has them listed as perhaps nearing 90% we did not see that, so there must be some averaging in there affecting those stats. Even still, what I am missing is how our total college tuitions for one student are now $10K more than they were for two in school. Nothing else has changed in regards to income, etc. though our home value has decreased like everyone else's, and our equity loans increased paying for tuitions!</p>
<p>Can anyone help with this? I know all schools do things a bit differently, but is this true of most schools? We had one in school for two years, and two in school for two years, so I thought we had this all figured out. Apparently not. </p>
<p>Respectfully submitted,
Frazzled Mom</p>
<p>(Sorry so long)</p>