<p>I'm trying to make a decision about where I'll end up next year, and I'm having quite a time of it. I was accepted to William and Mary, UPitt, Vassar, Wesleyan, NYU, and Maryland (I'm in-state at Maryland). Now, for one reason or another, I've essentially ruled out all but NYU and Maryland. In fact, until a few hours ago, I was set on going to NYU. But now, I'm really up in the air about it, and I'd like some input about how others might choose in my position.</p>
<p>NYU - I really, really liked the school when I visited. They don't offer overnights, so I didn't feel like I got the best feel for the school possible, but I really like the idea of being in NYC for the next four years. The overall open feel of the school, a little artsy and open-minded, although I'm not really saying that right, was a big plus as well. Also, I was awarded a $10,000 per year scholarship, which offsets the cost a wee bit. However, the downsides would be that I really initially wasn't so hot about the idea of a huge student body (although I know Maryland isn't any better), and I do think that the city might be a bit overwhelming, as while I'm not a mouse, I am a little on the soft-spoken side before I get to know people. Also, while my parents have agreed to pay the cost of tuition and room and board and all that, other living expenses are on me, and New York isn't exactly a cheap place to live. Another con, catty as it is, is that I was not invited to be part of the Presidential Scholars program, which I wasn't EXPECTING, per se, but did think I stood a good chance.</p>
<p>Maryland - The school itself is not a huge draw, it's the frosting. As my state school, I've honestly tried to avoid Maryland at all costs, so to speak, throughout my college search, but the stigma is really the main downer. The campus itself is mediocre, it never made a great impression on me, but I didn't hate it. The student body is huge, which is a little intimidating, but again, that's not much different from NYU. Academically, I feel like I can get just as good an education at Maryland as I can at NYU. I've been invited to the Honors program, which is actually fairly substantial at Maryland, as well as the Honors Humanities living and learning program, which caters to my interests academically, and most importantly, I've been given the institution's highest scholarship, the Banneker/Key scholarship, which covers full tuition, room and board, and book allowances for all four years and gives me the opportunity to participate in some sort of forum or something like that. Not sure about the last part, but the point is FREE COLLEGE. My parents have said that if I choose Maryland, I can use the money they would have had to spend on NYU to pay for grad school, which I'm almost definitely planning on going to, as well as for living expenses for undergrad.</p>
<p>So what do I do? I'm still undecided about what major to pursue, so that's not going to help me narrow things down. Do I go to a college that I really, really like in the city that I've loved forever and spend almost $40k a year, risking being overwhelmed by the big city, or do I settle for the state school, participating in their fairly selective honors program and getting the opportunity to get a full undergraduate and graduate education and graduate debt-free?</p>
<p>Any advice would be greatly appreciated!</p>