NYU vs Vassar

So um, I’m trying to decide between NYU and Vassar College but I need some help. Could I get some insights into both of these places please? It would be extremely helpful.

Some more info would be helpful, given that about the only things these two have in common is that they are in the same state and their arts programs are well regarded. City / suburb? big / small? what subject area(s)? Is money a factor? Have you been to either / both? what sort of collegiate life are you looking for?