<p>Hi WNYDanceMom!! It is great that you posted this. To everyone else, she and I and her lovely daughter met in person when they came to visit UVM. </p>
<p>Anyway, I definitely think your daughter should return to Oberlin, particularly on an admitted student event day if they have one, so she can get the scoop on every aspect of the college, talk to current students and prospective ones as well. Questions about the setting and social life could be addressed to current students. Of course, if they chose this college, they obviously were ok with this aspect but they still could shed light on the ramifications. </p>
<p>The two schools are obviously different in many ways as you know. </p>
<p>As we have discussed before, UVM itself is a very good school and quite atypical of a state university. The majority of the student body, in fact, is from out of state. Also, it is not nearly as big as most state universities. I think they have something like 6500 undergraduates? That is the size of Brown where my daughter goes, so a medium size actually. I know your daughter loved the setting and frankly if my kids had not grown up in Vermont and wanted to try college out of state, they both have said they would have thought Burlington was a great place to go to college. </p>
<p>As we have discussed, the Honors College, which my daughter got into last year as well, is new and small (100 kids per year), is filled with EXCELLENT students. I can think of at least three from my D's class last year who are in it and they were each ranked in the top ten kids in the class. Even the prior year, our valedictorian went to UVM and other years, the sal has gone. My D's best friend is in this program and chose it mostly cause she can go to UVM for free but this girl otherwise was material for a top notch college. I saw her recently when she came to visit my other child in the hospital (which was at UVM) and she loves it there. I just ran into another Honors student the other day when my D was home from college and we went shopping on Church Street (where I had met up with you) and this girl was shopping between classes (sounds like something your D would do, lol. Can you say Urban Outfitters? I recall talking of it with your D and how you don't have that store where you live!). This program would give your daughter a small enclave of highly motivated achievers academically, while amongst a strong student body in a university with many opportunities (she is undecided major, right?) and then the fun of the city of Burlington itself, all in walking distance, and then the surrounding area for things like skiing and such. </p>
<p>If you give me a call, or IM, or email, I would love for your daughter to speak to the girls from our school (all good friends of my older one) about Honors College so she could have a first hand account. I think the best way for a kid to find out more is to talk directly to peers in these situations as "references". I know sometimes it is hard for kids to dial that phone but even an email would be a great idea. I know they would help. </p>
<p>Likewise, I would do that with Oberlin. A friend of my older D's went there and he was also a top student at our school but also a musician (though not majoring in that). </p>
<p>I think these choices are excellent ones for your daughter but it will come down to which feels "right" to her given her criteria in what she would like out of college. Even if Oberlin has more "prestige" so to speak, I think academically, she could get a challenging program at the Honors College at UVM and then have the social life and fun of this great college small city. Only she knows which aspects matter to her the most. But I feel confident that the Honors College would ratchet up the academics (which are already strong) at UVM and then give her a small group to belong to that is made up of top students who could have gone to other selective colleges. </p>
<p>So, I hope you will be in touch and we can connect your daughter with these kids so she can make an informed decision.
Susan</p>