<p>Here is the thread in which I explained what happened at co-op. Start with post #29.</p>
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<p>The reason I want him to have his meals provided is that right now he is living on microwaved food. I don't think that's healthy. And, it's a hassle. I'd rather he not have to spend time on food preparation and have to eat alone in his room. I'd rather he have the benefit of eating with a group, for the socializing. </p>
<p>We did consider doing the 'friends of co=op' thing at 21st. The woman at the office told him when they'd be having orientation, and he actually went, but when he showed up, no one was in the common rooms. So he just dropped it after that. Not sure if she just got the time wrong or what. </p>
<p>Can you explain what you mean by 'weird?' I know there is a lot of partying at 21st. I'm not too worried about that since he's straightedge, and the thriving social life is definitely appealing. Any additional info would be appreciated!</p>
<p>We haven't ruled out 21st St for next year. In fact I plan to call this week to see if he needs to get on a waiting list or anything. </p>
<p>We had to go with the private dorm because, 2 days b4 classes started, there simply weren't any rooms to be found anywhere near campus. It's a nice place, no complaints really, but a dorm with meals would have been our 1st choice. It was a huge disappointment that Royal didn't work out.</p>
<p>We visited all the ICC and CH co-ops, or at least all the ones that didn't have smoking in the common rooms and offered vegetarian meals. Oh, and co-ops are still in the running because he has a cat, so I doubt if he'll find any other dorm that would let him keep his cat. </p>
<p>House of Commons seemed really cool but not cool in the physical sense - no A/C in the common rooms! Seneca seemed nice but not very friendly to him since he's not an upperclassman. </p>
<p>We looked at some of the College Houses, too. Taos didn't seem very clean so that was a turnoff. Pearl seemed a lot nicer, but one of his friends at his dorm said her room at Pearl smelled like pee and they gave her a hassle when she moved out. Not sure whether it got resolved or not.</p>
<p>After his bad experience at Royal, I don't know if he'd be open to staying at an ICC house. We weren't real pleased with how the situation got handled. We felt that since the roommate was in violation of policy he should have been the one to go. But, they have their ways of doing things. I guess it wasn't really a good match. I think my son would do better at a larger co-op with less drama. He's already had plenty of experience working out issues. I know that's an important skill for young adults, so in many cases a good thing, but in his case less drama would be better, I think. He has other issues to be concerned about, like his schoolwork.</p>
<p>He really did like the suites at 21st, and the active social life in the backyard. That was his 1st choice, at first, before changing to Royal. So the more details you can tell me about 21st, the better. Thanks!</p>