<p>One of the first things people look at is how you speak of and respect your parents. You should honor your parents, and they certainly don't need to "earn" your respect. Hell, he helps feed for you and shelter you. If that's not enough for you, its pretty sad.</p>
<p>You should respect him because he has enough character to take responsibilityfor you and care for you. I would not consider the fact that he doesn't feel the need for full disclosure when speaking with his son enough to call him a liar. </p>
<p>And, pornography is not perverse. In fact, it's one of America's largest industries. Industries don't get so huge by feeding the minority. A sex drive is far from perverse.</p>
<p>Jonathan K, are you gay?</p>
<p>what type of question is that are you?</p>
<p>I don't see how that has any relevance to the OPs situation.</p>
<p>I think you should just tell him that you found out, and how you feel about the whole situation.</p>
<p>No, I'm not gay. I'm surprised to you didn't know that from another thread where I said I was strongly against gay marriage. I was being attacked by this board. (Which the majority is liberal).</p>
<p>sagar, he doesn't help feed me or put a roof over my head. He lives in an apartment that my grandmother owns but she lets him live in it for free. He does not pay child support. In no way does he contribute.</p>
<p>I have no idea what he does with all his money. He claims that he doesn't have any to spend on anything, which is why he asks his mom to pay for everything.</p>
<p>He makes me sick.</p>
<p>read this thread a year later. ur gonna laugh.</p>
<p>Okay I have no idea what your going through but listen your still alittle young you'll get over some of the things, the other stuff you won't. Don't worry.</p>
<p>Oh my...Escort? Part II</p>
<p>I'm at my dad's house right now. I got here yesterday. When I was up here in April, I was finding things in the Google search box such as, atm sex, ottawa escorts, montreal escorts, toronto escorts, ottawa playgirls, ottawa nastygirls, free sex pics, free sex videos, adult friend finder, etc. Half of these were bookmarked on his computer. Last time when I was here, I deleted all of those things, including his bookmarked sites. Guess what I found when I came up here yesterday? The exact same thing, but this time, it was on both of his computers, one of them being his work computer, which they monitor. So, once again, I'm fed up with his hypocritical behavior. I ask him his opinions on things like prostitution, porn videos, etc. He says that prostitution is wrong and should be stopped, and that porn videos "ruin sex." So, what should I do? Thanks a lot, guys! :)</p>
<p>Dude, it's been 2 months. Get the hell over it. Come back when you're not 12</p>
<p>Lol your dads such a player</p>
<p>I dont believe for a second that you wont ever look at porn. Most teenage guys do..at least once. It's natural.</p>
<p>atleast once?! i mean....ya, just once</p>
<p>It's not really the porn that ticks me off, it's the searches for escorts. If you don't think that's wrong, you're crazy.</p>
<p>Why is it wrong? He's a man with needs. He obviously can't satisfy those needs the socially acceptable way so he pays for it. Whatever. All men have a dark side when it comes to sex. Deal with it.</p>
<p>so you dad wants a little booty- give the guy a break, you're not even supposed to know; i would pretend that i never saw anything, who wants to know about their parents' sex life?</p>
<p>I know Jonathon its just u said before that you wouldnt ever look at porn and i think if you're a normal teenaged boy with the same hormones you probably will. As far as your dad, just forget about it, why worry about it.</p>
<p>Meh, I think that would be really weird and really disturbing if I found that on my dad's computer. Alas, my dad barely knows how to turn on the computer :) I really don't know what I do, but you have a right to feel awkward.</p>
<p>Yeah.. and it's just that he pays $300 + per ... whatever you call it. lol I looked at the sites. Some charge $2500 to stay over night. Then, he complains that he doesn't have money. He rents an apartment that my grandmother owns and he never pays the rent. My grandmother is finally starting to realize what a loser he really is.</p>