<p>So Valentine's Day is tomorrow, and this guy who I'm friends with says he's going to do something big for me. Uh-oh. Repeat: We're just friends. I pointed it out a while ago, but I guess he's forgotten (intentionally?). I don't want to accept anything from him because I'm not attracted to him and never will be. I think he got the wrong idea because I agreed to go to prom with him, but I thought he knew that I wasn't attracted, and at my school, going to prom with someone doesn't signify anything since they're so few people to choose from (entire high school: < 80 students). What do I do?</p>
<p>well you did tell him you weren't interested... Did you make it obvious? Maybe he is just doing something nice to your because you are his friend...um ... maybe....</p>
<p>Just go out with him and make his day =)</p>
<p>Then, dump him.</p>
<p>jkz, tell him about "that other boy that you have a uber crush on"</p>
<p>Pretty much, I'm in the exact same situation as you are haha</p>
<p>Hope for the best?</p>
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<p>He asked me if there was a chance and I said no, not ever. </p>
<p>I don't want to be rude! He is my friend.</p>
<p>Well, I know how you feel, Heather. Good luck!</p>
<p>Sounds like he's infatuated. He's asked you to prom and he's asked if there was a chance. Keep dropping hints that say your aren't interested. Above all:</p>
<p>AVOID HIM ON VALENTINE'S DAY!! You don't want whatever he's going to give you.</p>
<p>Just keep mentioning your crushes if you have any in front of him to make him get some message</p>
<p>FIRST, take his present and say thanks </p>
<p>SECOND, tell him that you think of him just as a friend and that you guys are going to a prom as friends</p>
<p>THEN, leave him and enjoy your present!!</p>
<p>What if the present is a huge bouquet or something?</p>
<p>If I were you, I'd still take it :p</p>
<p>absolutely DO NOT tell him about your "other crushes" as this merely gives the impression that other boys are the reason to blame for him having no chance, rather than his own "unattractiveness." Essentially, you'd be giving him false hope and a reason to keep hanging on.</p>
<p>im interested in seeing what he does for you tomorrow lol</p>
<p>This will be an interesting outcome...I still can't imagine that a longtime friend would be that dense, however.</p>
<p>wow, this is the reason alot of guys are depressed. underhanded/kind of mean things like avoiding him on valentines day. as a guy, i want no more than for girls to be truthful and straightforward.</p>
<p>dream on buddy</p>
<p>She has been truthful. Didn't she tell him that there was "no chance"?</p>
<p>I know it's rude to refuse a present, but honestly, that's what I would do. When he offers you whatever that may be, just say no (haha...I sound like a parent tell her child not to do drugs). I think that'll get the message across...maybe.</p>
<p>[coughs] He [coughs] likes [coughs] you [coughs] because [coughs] you [coughs] are [coughs] his [coughs] obsession. [coughs] </p>
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<p>thats harsh... exactly my situation, except i'm the guy. but i've given up on it pretty much. tell myself to move on and stop wasting time with her.</p>
<p>^that's good..some guys just can't seem to grasp that concept (the one about moving on).</p>