Ok girls, I want your point of view.

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>There is this girl, obviously, who I have liked for a while. We talk all the time, text, walk to every class together, whatever. She is single, so am I. I think she likes me, at least others tell me it seems like she does by the way she looks at me, talks to me, etc. So it's not like I'm some creeper who stalks a girl or something.</p>

<p>This Friday is her birthday. Her family doesn't really get her much. I was thinking about sending a package to her house, with a rose, a bag of her favorite candy, and a note asking her to prom. </p>

<p>Would that be dumb? Weird? Idk I'm so nervous about it.</p>

<p>Thanks</p>

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<p>I don’t think so given that you’ve already detected her clandestine. Give it a try. But first, I would ask her if it makes her feel any comfortable receiving gifts.</p>

<p>Btw, am not a girl.</p>

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<p>since you guys are already friends, I think this is a cute idea</p>

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<p>I am afraid it will either be the worst rejection ever. Or a really good thing.</p>

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<p>As I said, ask her if she’s comfortable getting gifts from other people.</p>

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<p>Hero …or… Zero.
Go for it, bro.
You’ll regret not asking.
Does she CC? Hope not.</p>

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<p>well you’ll never know otherwise</p>

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<p>That is a good idea. I got her something last year, and she seemed happy. But who knowss</p>

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<p>I think this would be really sweet. :slight_smile: If my guy friend were to ask me to Prom like this I’d be tickled pink.<br>

  • 17 year old girl with moderate dating experience</p>
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<p>Aww, I think that’s really sweet. Do it.</p>

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<p>umm…i would think most people are comfortable getting gifts on their birthdays from friends. As long as its not something really expensive, I don’t see the problem.</p>

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<p>Haa Batllo if she does I’m F#cked. But I don’t think so.</p>

<p>But if I don’t I’ll always regret it. Plus Im moving away to college in a year. So the awkwardness would only last that long max</p>

<p>I appreciate the opinions guys!
(In this context, guys means “girls”)</p>

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<p>I think that it’s both sweet and not overly forward. Go for it.</p>

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<p>You’ll let us know how it went, okay?</p>

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<p>Oh I will. If you don’t hear from me, assume I just jumped off a bridge or something.</p>

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<p>Good luck getting accepted by her with the gift.</p>

<p>Sweet acceptances are rare. Lol</p>

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<p>I would say you’re a High Reach/Low Match for you though given you’re friends :)</p>

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<p>HopefulEagle, you’re making me so nervous! More than usual!</p>

<p>Ha Vertigo, I should make a chance me thread. Those kids love doing those.
Although my EC’s might not be strong enough</p>

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<p>Go for it dude! Unlike some of these other recent “dating advice” posts, I approve of your course of action. Also, try and see her within 24 hours of her getting the box.</p>

<p>I doubt most girls would flat out reject a friend to prom. Even if she doesn’t think of you “that way”, she’d probably still accept as a friend.</p>

<p>-Note that I’m a guy</p>

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<p>Problem number 2- If she does miraculously accept, I’m screwed. I CANT DANCE!! :(</p>