On possibly being stuck in-state

You’ve picked either ridiculously-difficult-to-get-admitted-into private schools, or public schools where you’re not going to get FA.

If u are serious about wanting to go away to college, then you need to get your SAT scores up and then target schools that you stand a reasonably good chance of being admitted and can realistically afford. Look at schools (public or private) where you stand to land decent MERIT money.