@mom2collegekids where did your son go for undergrad?
And I sympathize with his GF. I spent many unwanted nights in the library with my now husband, waiting for him to finish studying. My grades did go up though!
@lizardly Here are a few other details. He doesn’t play team sports anymore but, loves pick up games of flag football or whatever’s going on. He loves to camp, hunt, and hike. He’s a Christian and has friends of all backgrounds. He’s very well traveled and still never leaves the house without his Kindle. Last year, he decided he wanted a non-school hobby so, he taught himself to play guitar.
He has no qualms about leaving Texas. We’ve traveled all over the U.S.