<p>I was going to post this as a continuation of the ‘Community at Brown’ thread, but it got so long that I figured I would post it separately:</p>
<p>Here’s something for you, an advantage of Brown that I didnt truly appreciate until I had visited and spoken to friends at other colleges:</p>
<p>Brown’s dorms do not have RA’s or any other peers charged with acting as authority figures. I do not know of a single other school in Brown’s peer group (or at all, really) for which this is true.</p>
<p>Now, for those of you who drink, the beauty of this is self-evident. No one will ever write you up for what you do in the privacy of your dormitory. Not just in your room, but literally in the entire dormitory. When I tell friends of mine at other schools about this, they note that they, too, can do what they want as they please, so long as they keep the door closed. They talk of keeping the door closed as a courtesy to the RA’s, who are obligated to report what they see. At Brown, you would be doing no one a favor by drinking behind closed and locked doors, because there are no authority figures who are charged with reporting you. And this means that drinking at Brown often does not have the rapid, excessive, and furtive nature that it can take on at other schools, which is really, really great.</p>
<p>But what does this mean for someone who doesn’t care to drink? It means a couple things: (a.) You will feel trusted. This is an extension of the atmosphere at Brown that revolves around freedom of choice, and it’s a pretty great feeling. (b.) Your counselors (and there are many of them, when you’re a freshman) are real peers, who you feel comfortable talking to, and who have time for you. This is worth more than you can imagine if youve never lived in a dormitory situation before.</p>
<p>Im anticipating two groups of comments, so Ill address them beforehand:</p>
<p>ADOCHers who met their hosts RC/MPC/WPCs, and assumed that they are charged with similar responsibilities as RAs at other schools: they are not. One of my friends who is a counselor recounted, laughing, how she bumped into one pre-frosh girl who was drinking. When the girls host introduced her as the counselor for the dorm, the pre-frosh was emphatically apologetic, thinking she would get in trouble. This was funny, of course, because my friend wasnt going to do anything that simply isnt her job.</p>
<p>Parents: Great, now I cant send my kid to Brown, s/he is going to spiral out of control with all kinds of debauchery! Wrong. Browns policy about in-dorm counselors and alcohol control is effective, and encourages much better practices than policies at other schools. The basic tenets: keep drinking on campus, in controlled environments, and make help (should it be needed) accessible and not intimidating. In case you havent read any recent literature on drinking culture in college, it basically works like this: the more you police alcohol consumption, the more quickly students try to get drunk behind closed doors. This is a recipe for disaster that Brown students dont have to worry about to nearly the extent of my friends at other schools. If you are worried about your childs wellbeing with regard to alcohol, I would recommend you do two things: (a.) read Binge by Barrett Seaman, especially the chapters on alcohol policy and the drinking age (the whole book is great, though) and (b.) send your student to a school with a sensible alcohol policy, like Browns.</p>