<p>Pizzagirl–kids change, circumstances change. Our S just decided that the school that was previously his #1 non-lottery choice is no longer in contention. We still think it’s a great fit for him but in talking to current classmates, at least 5 kids from his high school class will be attending that school, majoring in the same area he is, with classes of 20 kids or less. He said it would feel too much like high school for him. We agreed with that. He had no way of knowing that when he applied.</p>