Opposite Sex Roommates

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thats what im saying. and it would be hard for the girls to stop staring at my awesome body and beautiful face so its really unfair for me to be the source of drama.

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<p>A litle self-absrobed?</p>

<p>it was a joke? have a sense of humour?</p>

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it was a joke? have a sense of humour?

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<p>I couldn't tell since you didn't insert a smile face.</p>

<p>yeah!! your words in online forums can often be misinterpreted. Since, we can not know the tone of your voice, 'smilies' help make things easier.</p>

<p>1 guy - 3 girl scene is hard for the guy. One guy can tolerate a girl walking around in undergarments. What if you have 3 girls walking around in their bra and panties. No doubt, you'll get distracted....haha</p>

<p>but, I think this question is not be to discussed as right or wrong. It is just how you take it. I would never take a girl for a room partner. but as a suite partner, it's manageable.</p>

<p>I would absolutely demand that she have up to three girls sleep over after going to the bars on the weekend. </p>

<p>Seriously, I don't know why I never thought of an idea like this before. Living with a girl would be like having a twin sister in high school. You basically have an insider on your side now. Use that to your advantage.</p>

<p>now i wish i was rooming with them. i wouldnt think girls would walk around in their bras and panties.
no id do have a nice body imo, working out every day helps.</p>

<p>If you are used to living with girls (i.e. sisters) you could probably handle it. But if you have never lived with girls before, you may be in for a rude awakening. I had a friend (who grew up an only child) tell me he didn't know until freshman year of college that girls farted.</p>

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now i wish i was rooming with them. i wouldnt think girls would walk around in their bras and panties.
no id do have a nice body imo, working out every day helps.

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<p>Seeing somebody in their bra and panties is like seeing them in a bikini. It is not like they are going to be walking around in thongs.</p>

<p>....don't lie. Girls together=drama.</p>

<p>Also if she walks around in a Bar and panties it goes both ways. If she is hot than fantastic...if she is fat and ugly well then it kind of sucks.</p>

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I had a friend (who grew up an only child) tell me he didn't know until freshman year of college that girls farted.

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to be fair, that's because they don't</p>

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Also if she walks around in a Bar and panties it goes both ways. If she is hot than fantastic...if she is fat and ugly well then it kind of sucks.

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<p>That is why you never room with an ugly girl. :)</p>

<p>I live with 3 guys and a girl in a 3bdrm/2ba apartment. I actually share the room with the girl and two guys shared the master bedroom and the other guy had his own room. I actually never talked to my roommate. since I didn't know her before. And then there was never any drama that arised from the guys. At most, the only issue was cleanliness. But I do second that idea about the no people staying over....</p>

<p>One of the guys in the master bedroom got a gf (who lives across the apartment complex from us, a whole 25 feet) and she is here whenever he is here, because her roommate *****ed at them to get out. HOWEVER, the other guy (and myself) have become very irritated with the couple, as they have their dishes everywhere, are loud, they sleep in the living room so I can't even watch TV since they use the couch. It's hard enough having 5 people share a fridge, but 6 is cutting it (even with my roommate and the other guy having their own mini-fridges). Especially when one is not paying rent.</p>

<p>but otherwise, everything has been going good. I have friends that are strictly in same sex apartments, and I hear a LOT of drama coming out from those. But if you truly feel comfortable living with her, then go for it!</p>

<p>haha if you're going to bring girls home at night from time to time, why would it bother you if they did?
and yeah, underwear has generally even more coverage than a bikini..i'm generally fine with having people i know see me in it. especially because i'm addicted to buying lingerie and sadly it isn't displayed nearly often enough :)</p>

<p>but yeah..the drama concern is pretty legit. they won't have drama involving YOU, but you'll have to listen to them fighting/gossiping and subsequently complaining to you about it.</p>

<p>also, i have a theory: girls who assert that they get along way better with guys and thus don't have many girlfriends are generally..not exactly the nicest people, to refrain from using the b-word..</p>

<p>There is probably one girl that I would consider rooming with. I'd still find it a tad awkward if she were to bring guys home, even though she is going out with one of my good friends right now.</p>

<p>How would you feel as a girlfriend of a guy who was deciding to room with another girl and just that girl? Should it matter if the girlfriend liked the girl? Should the guy inform his girlfriend of the situation first?</p>

<p>Honestly, if I were that girlfriend I would feel as if another girl were intruding on something that was reserved for what I wanted in a relationship (it's not a matter of trust, I tend to naively whole-hearted trust people), and that opinion isn't going to change by anything anyone else says, but I just want to know what other people think.</p>

<p>"also, i have a theory: girls who assert that they get along way better with guys and thus don't have many girlfriends are generally..not exactly the nicest people, to refrain from using the b-word.."</p>

<p>Your theory sucks, in my experience.</p>

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"also, i have a theory: girls who assert that they get along way better with guys and thus don't have many girlfriends are generally..not exactly the nicest people, to refrain from using the b-word.."</p>

<p>Your theory sucks, in my experience.

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<p>It's kinda true though. Girls compete for guys. Competitive girls trying to impress the same guy obviously won't click. A girl starts spending all her time with the guys, the other girls are going to get jealous. I'm guessing you've never witnessed a cat fight before?</p>

<p>I have more girl friends than guy friends at college, and I dispute Leah's theory. I assume she's referring to girls who're really hot so the guys all like them, but in general are b***** so don't get along well with the same sex. That's true, but there are also a lot of women who get tired of the cattiness of a large circle of girlfriends and prefer hanging out with guys (and a few very close girls) who don't hold grudges for 20 lifetimes.</p>