<p>OP, you have made a lot of generalizations. First, your assertion
that everyone hangs out with their high school friends. My in-state
daughter hangs with no high school friends, and about seven of her
classmates are at Penn State plus many others from her high school in
other graduating classes. </p>
<p>You don’t like the bar scene and say the laws are strict. Stupid or
not, they are laws, right? And you get detained and the police are
called when you use your fake ID? You could avoid the bars until you
are 21 and the whole issue disappears. Felony charges for drugs in
PA? Not Penn State’s fault. Don’t smoke a joint on campus and avoid
having that problem. And frat parties everywhere are repulsive, it’s
their nature.</p>
<p>We are from the “Alabama” (as you called it) part of Pennsylvania.<br>
There are quite a few of us that don’t live in Philadelphia or
Pittsburgh, but for the record, I grew up in the Philadelphia area.
We are not racists, homophobes or whatever else you care to think. We
are not making moonshine out in the woods or marrying our cousins. We
are well-educated people who don’t fit your stereotype. You might even
like us if you came to visit. We won’t sit around all night making
racist comments, promise. We have no Confederate flag decals on our cars. A whole lot of people here voted for Obama.
We read the papers, watch TV and have the internet. We actually
leave the state and go to other states and other countries.</p>
<p>So you were a 4-year varsity athlete? So was my daughter, my son will
be, too. My daughter was a two-sport captain and vice-president of her
class for three years. So what? You had a reputation as a heavy
partier? That’s a good thing? Penn State is not the party school you
hoped it would be? So what?</p>
<p>My daughter has had some TAs, some full professors. Some she likes,
some she doesn’t. Her grades are good and she is learning.</p>
<p>You said “quite frankly I feel that I am better than this place and I have no problem admitting that.” Alrighty. </p>
<p>There are many, many students at Penn State. Thirty percent or so are from
out of state. Most thrive.</p>
<p>When I tried to figure out your exact gripe, it seems that you are
unhappy with Penn State, Pennsylvanians and Pennsylvania and maybe
Alabama. Oh, and law enforcement. I think the only way to fix that is
to live somewhere else.</p>
<p>I think your unhappiness and blame is focused in the wrong places. I
am sorry that you are not having a good experience in a place that many
love. It’s a shame that you didn’t leave when you discovered Penn
State wasn’t for you. What a waste of your college experience.</p>