<p>Hi Guys,</p>
<p>I am posting on the Parents Forum since I am really out of options and maybe some older people could give me light on the situation. My mom and dad have decided to make me live with my dad in a apartment at college to "keep an eye on me". Let me give you some background first. See I used to go to a huge state school and I kinda let myself go out of control. They found out when our housekeeper told them and now even my housekeeper even thinks that my life is sad since I don't have anything to do at the house on a Friday or Saturday. My parents were mortified since they are very earnest and clean people who don't even drink and obviously they don't approve of what college kids do.Since then they have had access to my Facebook, various forms of social media, and my phone. Keep in mind I am 19 years old and if I told them what typical college kids do they will just yell and cry(mom). Even now my mom thinks that this event is like a death in the family and has relapses and cries about it. They are also overbearing and if I speak a different opinion they have they start to get angry and are close minded. Well now I am a nearby college that I wasn't very satisfied with since I had long commute times and well I don't really get to make close friends or have fun with people my own age. Recently I got accepted to another very prestigious state school and my parents liking the idea of getting a better education have decided to let me go.....but with one MAJOR catch. My dad has to live with me on campus at an apartment and make sure I come home right after class and don't leave. I don't really want him to live there since pretty much that means I can't really hangout with people my own and well it is just a bit extreme. He also gets very angry for very little things like me dropping something so there is his anger problems. Basically I know what I did was wrong, but now it seems they want to follow me wherever I go and I can never get the normal life I used to have. They think dorms are like "trap houses", but it was really just my floor we had bad luck with that was kinda full of screw ups. I really want to live in a single dorm so at least I can have some social interaction with people and have a sense of being there at the university. I get that I am paying for my decisions now, but is there anyway I can get out of this by explaining. Am I better off the just commuting to the same university I am at now to save myself from embarrassment of living with my dad( At least I can tell my peers I live at home) or go to this university town where I live with my father in close quarters(I can never really invite friends over or even get food with people since there will be strict rules in place). Every time they bring up "This will be so sad when your dad has to live with you", my heart dies just a little because I know I won't have a normal college experience or life experience. </p>