<p>*I do understand the mass of debt. I do understand the difference in the loan options. We do not qualify for any grants/free money. My s can get a small unsubsidized loan - only totaling about 1/4 of the total cost of one year. That other $15000 has to come from somewhere. Not everyone can get the wonderful merit scholarships. Average kids don’t get them. My s finished in the top % of his class and still only got a $1000 scholarship to his school. Most of their scholarships are for ‘perfect’ achievers, not the average A student.</p>
<p>That being said…the money has to come from somewhere. I would rather borrow the money on a plus loan (and did) than tell my child I cannot afford to send him to school. What kind of future would he have? We have saved some, but not enough. We are average, so no big bucks here available. Not everyone has the money tucked away.</p>
<p>That being said, we, his parents will pay back the parent plus loans ourselves. The payments begin immediately with interest.</p>
<p>I agree that it sounds like a lot of debt for the poster. However, I can only imagine how horrified they feel right now after reading all the previous posts. For some of us, getting into college wasn’t the hard part, paying for it is.*</p>
<p>I see from another thread that your son is going to Mizzou. That’s great. </p>
<p>However, a student doesn’t have to start at a 4 year university if money is an issue (and especially if there are younger siblings who will be following). </p>
<p>Your post suggests that you’ll be borrowing about $15k for the first year. Multiply that by 4 years and you’re talking $60k in debt (repayments will be about $800 per month).</p>
<p>Now, if you have younger children and you’ll have to do that again, soon you’re talking 120k or more in debt (Payments could be about $1600/month at that point). I find it hard to understand how people can pay that much back each month when they can’t pay much in real time towards college. That’s how these student loan/Plus loan problems start. </p>
<p>I can understand the position of not wanting to deny college to a child, but starting at a CC or a state school that is commutable would certainly reduce the total debt by quite a lot.</p>
<p>And, there are lower tier schools that give good merit for just avg stats.</p>