<p>marite, my post was in response to sybbie’s, about how an outside scholarship would be used, and assumed not that the student would get one, but what could happen if she did.</p>
<p>UCLA Band Mom, if that’s what the father is trying to accomplish, it seems a very odd way to go about it. He’s the adult, so if he wants to repair the relationship, I should hope that he would go about doing so in an adult manner.</p>
<p>sybbie, do we know whether the student has any outside scholarships at this point? I don’t recall reading anything about her having them. As I mention above, I’m assuming she doesn’t have any now, and that your post was referred to what could happen in future years should she get one, and it was with that assumption that I was responding.</p>